I love my G. I mean I LOVEEEE my G. (As I type this he is sluuuuuurping some frozen yogurt shake and I am ready to dump it over his freakin' head because I can't stand the sound. That said. I still love him. Deep breath, Audry.) Let me count the ways..
1. He is frugal to everything and everyone (except me). He can save money like it's nobody's business. I've never seen it done so well. Just never ever buying anything ever, unless it is high quality and going to be a good decision at least for the next 5 years to come. This is a quality I need in my man, because frankly, I suck at money. Really suck. I buy things on a whim because it makes me happy. That's the only reasoning. I'm one of those people who tries to promise myself that I'll save tomorrow and not get a morning coffee. As if that will make up for buying 5 new outfits at Heartbreaker. Anyway, he saves money. And once we're married we have 1 joint bank account and I will have no choice but to frugal up and suck it up.
3. He is kind. He can step in someone else's shoes. He is never rude. He can be honest without being offensive. He is good at meeting people and talking to strangers. He is quick to say he's sorry and even quicker to forgive. He won't hold a grudge. He doesn't complain or trash talk. He puts everyone else first. I am so selfish in comparison. I will always put myself first and make sure my needs are being met, in my relationship, my work, and day to day life. He would never do that. I have to remind myself to make sure I'm trying my best to meet his needs because he would never say them out loud. Even how I just said that like, "oh poor me, I have to make sure he's okay." There I go, being selfish. I will work on it, try to be more like him.
4. He can do math very quickly in his head. Okay, fine, not a reason to love someone. But I do love that about him. I can be adding things up and just use him as a calculator. Quite handy.
5. His clothes. 50% of the time, he is dressed like a slob. When he is home, he wears the most ragged shiz (the frugality is definitely accountable). But, when we need to dress up, go anywhere, when he's at work - he can put himself together so well. He cares about textures and patterns. At first I thought this was a little "gay". It's not gay. It's hot that his clothes match. He has a creative side to him that just "gets it". His shoes. His hair. His sunglasses. He just knows what is in style and how to do it. Yay, G!
6. But most of all, I love G because he makes me feel good. I am always so excited to come home and be with him. He cooks for me. He is hilarious. He rubs my feet. He surprises me with Mt. Dew and Big Macs. He compliments me. He supports me. We have the same dreams.
Grant is a serious Gemini, I never know what I'm gonna get. Everyday is a gamble. We have good days and bad days. We fight A LOT. But our good times are so so so influential that the bad days are disregarded.

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